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Post by Mark the Dragon on Aug 1, 2020 6:44:09 GMT
I wasn't really here during this situation but this apology is a good start, making amends should be your next priority to fix this situation. Honestly, everyone makes mistakes and probably even worse than this but that isn't an excuse, you never should have sent explicit images to minors or anyone without at least consent from the other party to send them. It makes you look like a creep and assuming someone is crushing on you when you make them uncomfortable with a question to force out an answer is unacceptable. And harassing female members because "immaturity" isn't an excuse and using it as an excuse is in itself immature as hell.
I trust that you will learn from these mistakes and not repeat them but for the time being a vacation from the server and discord could do good for your relationships with the members you solicited and all the other members you made loose trust and respect for you with those actions.
I wish you all the luck in the word and hope you can make amends for your actions and not repeat them!
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Post by Jay on Aug 1, 2020 9:08:38 GMT
Ah yes, the friendship of sending another minor explicit images. A simple "Hello" is normally the first step to greeting someone. I know this Jag. I've taken that into consideration a long time ago. Obviously, I've learned from this mistake. Obviously, I've learned from this mistake.until you learn that this type of shit means nothing, you will never take the next step to improving yourself.
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Post by miwo on Aug 1, 2020 9:52:40 GMT
Fuck, this is like the amalgamation of TF cringe in one single thread. Those screenshots are hilarious lmao. Sad, but hilarious.
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Post by fleshy_ on Aug 1, 2020 12:19:51 GMT
You acknowledged some of your mistakes, but not most of them. I was feeling quite lonely and wanted to make new friends. Literally a simple "hello" or "hi" could've just solved your problem, you didn't have to send literal porn to someone to gain their friendship Me taking that as she likes me, and didn't fully understand her age until after the situation, I kept saying that she has a crush on me, she loves me, saying I'm hotter than her and asking if I'm hot. You forced an answer out of her, she didn't even want to answer in the first place I just got my driving permit, that's a huge responsibility and you definitely need maturity for it. I got that a month after this all happened due to COVID-19. Getting your driving permit isn't proof that you're mature, you can be 19 or even 28 and still be immature. And also: First of all, don't date on the internet. Just don't. Second, if you wanted to make friends then just DM them and ask to hang out, or join the VC on the Discord server. Third, don't treat someone differently for being a female. I know multiple admins on TF that either lie and say they're guys, or hide their gender because they are afraid of harassment. Don't contribute to that fear. ^I suggest you to take this advice
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Post by banteroussor on Aug 2, 2020 21:20:27 GMT
You are chatting utter shit mate. It is clear you are only apologising because you want admin back and you realised you had to when you were getting them objects.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2020 0:47:01 GMT
I beg your pardon
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Darth
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Post by Darth on Aug 3, 2020 1:28:04 GMT
Like I said in your DM, I just got my driving permit, that's a huge responsibility and you definitely need maturity for it. I got that a month after this all happened due to COVID-19. That proves nothing. If driving confirmed maturity, we wouldn't have drunk drivers. Also a driving permit is literally the lowest form of driving authorization and has a lot of restrictions.
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Post by rylie. on Aug 3, 2020 1:47:21 GMT
this entire apology feels forced, tbh. i know this has been pointed out several times already, but getting your permit doesn't mean shit about responsibility and maturity. hell, if those were directly related to getting a permit, there'd be a lot fewer people with one. I was feeling quite lonely and wanted to make new friends. this is an incredibly poor way to gain friends out of the blue and an incredibly successful way to get people to block you, report you, etc. honestly, i think you need to wait a while and try again because at the current, it looks like this was made just so you could get people to vouch on your reinstatement.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2020 2:02:24 GMT
I was feeling quite lonely and wanted to make new friends. this is an incredibly poor way to gain friends out of the blue and an incredibly successful way to get people to block you, report you, etc. You're not alone here I also suffer from the same "Need to become friends with everyone" problem.
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Post by Darth on Aug 3, 2020 2:09:08 GMT
this is an incredibly poor way to gain friends out of the blue and an incredibly successful way to get people to block you, report you, etc. You're not alone here I also suffer from the same "Need to become friends with everyone" problem. Clearly your methods are identical to Joe's.
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Post by nick on Aug 3, 2020 3:37:53 GMT
Others may not see your apology as enough and I respect their opinions, I think it's fair for me to give my own opinion - Your actions although stupid isn't really the worst thing we have seen out of this community. We have seen worse, but that's not an excuse. For starters, Online Harassment regarding nero's case on you, what you did was clearly stupid and you didn't think twice before acting which is a common theme here but I have no rights to accept nor deny your apology to nero since it's up to her and its her decision, not mine nor the community's in my opinion.
You could say, it's was poor humour but it's not that funny to be frank - Secondly, the pornographic images sent to lyicx that in it's own is unacceptable regardless if you were trying to make friends or having a banter. Many players claim that you sent CP imagery in DMs but nothing was confirmed as of right now, nevertheless, you made stupid decisions and therefore you have been punished.
If you wanna make friends, trust me, this isn't the way to do it. Making friends in this community is easy, be nice, be professional, have a light joke once in a while, be serious in certain times where needed - I'm not gonna be going over if I accept or deny your apology because the real question that no one seems to be asking is "Did you learn from your mistakes?".
At the end of the day, you missed up and making an apology to the community which is the first step for a better future. I will place some trust in you, believing that you indeed can change and become a better person.
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Post by Gommeh on Aug 3, 2020 16:10:33 GMT
What you did was highly inappropriate, and I think you will need to show that you’ve really changed before the community accepts you again. It will take some time before I’m fully able to accept your apology. I’m sorry.
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Post by Zenreon on Aug 3, 2020 21:41:33 GMT
unga bunga minecraft apology
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Post by square on Aug 3, 2020 23:02:58 GMT
i dont understand these threads, shouldnt you be apologising to the parties involved and not people who dont know what youve done? people out here saying they dont accept it despite never being near it
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Post by Darth on Aug 3, 2020 23:13:09 GMT
i dont understand these threads, shouldnt you be apologising to the parties involved and not people who dont know whta youve done? people out here saying they dont accept it despite never being near it You're right, that's how it should be. But this apology was made for the sole purpose of getting people to stop objecting on his reinstatement. If that is the goal, then naturally you would make a very public apology as that would sway more people than doing it through DM's to a small number of people. The fact that he "apologized" after his reinstatement and not before speaks volumes about the reason it was made.
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